Confession time! It’s Sunday, and confessions are good for the soul.
The journey to freedom is never easy. It demands honesty—the kind that can shake the very foundations of who we think we are. Without truth, the journey crumbles before it truly begins.
Someone asked, “If Sanomentology is so powerful, why isn’t it more widely known?” The answer is simple, yet deeply personal: because of my own mistakes.
Two pivotal forces have kept Sanomentology in the shadows.
The first was fear. When I embarked on this path, I imagined a world filled with understanding and passion, where minds seeking healing would come together with openness. Instead, I found a landscape dominated by fragile egos, people still entangled in their own wounds, seeking validation in ways that turned them into gatekeepers rather than healers. You were either part of their circle, or you were the enemy. At first, I played along, but when I refused to conform, I was cast aside. Rumors spread, lies were told, and the weight of their toxicity reminded me of the foster system I had fought to escape.
This experience forced a realization: I had barely scratched the surface of my own struggles. Many who enter the therapy world do so after overcoming a personal issue, yet often, they fail to recognize how deeply their unresolved wounds continue to shape them. Their businesses, their clients, even their belief systems, all reflections of what remained unhealed within them.
And I was no different.
I was desperate for validation, avoiding visibility because I feared retaliation from those eager to tear down competition. That fear made me dangerous, a hypocrite trapped in a cycle of self-preservation. So I stepped back, hid in the shadows, and faced my own truth.
That retreat led to the second reason for my anonymity: I lost my purpose. I told myself I wanted to help others, but beneath that noble intention was a more urgent battle, one for survival, emotionally and financially. As Stephen King might say, I had forgotten the face of my father. The path blurred. Instead of focusing on truth, I chased what had always been absent in my life: love, security, validation. And in that chase, I attracted the very losses I was trying to escape. Friends disappeared. Family drifted. Bankruptcy hit. I reached rock bottom. I even tried to end it, and failed, a failure I am deeply grateful for. But this final near fatal action was enough to spur me to face my truth fully. And working through the exact methods I created lifted me, not just back to a place of living day today, but one where I could once more see the future I wanted, and strive for it. And just 6 months later, I was in a completely different life. I found love, not born from desperation or control, but a result of mutual respect and feelings. Business once more picked up. The things I’d been so desperate for began to appear naturally. This was as a result of Sanomentology, and facing my truth.
The truth is, Sanomentology was born out of my own need. And that does not diminish its power. On the contrary, it strengthens it. Because when we create from a place of deep personal necessity, we demand more. We refuse to settle for half-measures. A salesman might sell something he doesn’t believe in, but when buying for himself, he seeks only the best. That was me. I didn’t build Sanomentology for others, I built it because nothing else could give me the results I was searching for.
So I worked. Quietly. Methodically. Testing, refining, peeling back the layers of the mind, until I saw just how complex healing truly is. A single method would never be enough. And what worked for me would not work for everyone. So Sanomentology evolved. Over 40 distinct processes, adaptable to each individual, bending and shifting to meet the needs of the person using it.
As I healed, my approach to my business changed too. At first, I sought numbers, training as many people as possible, spreading the name far and wide. That was just another manifestation of my need for validation. But numbers mean nothing without purpose. Some who trained in Sanomentology have become incredible practitioners, transforming lives with integrity and depth. Others simply dabbled, never truly embracing the responsibility that comes with guiding someone through their mind.
I no longer chase numbers. I seek quality. The ones who train now are few, but they are dedicated. Passionate. Willing to grow. Their commitment shines in the questions they ask, the support they seek. They care, not just about helping others, but about understanding their own truth.
And that, in the end, is what Sanomentology is about, finding the courage to confront the deepest corners of the mind and emerge freer than before.
So I ask, are you serious about your role in life? Do you even acknowledge you role? Do you want to?
If yes to any of those questions, then Sanomentology is a path that will lead you in the right direction. I stand here in my own truth as a testament to that.